Wednesday, October 20, 2004

On Baseball and Politics

For those who don't know, this blog is written in Boston, home of the Boston Red Sox. And, for those among you who are not baseball fans, (Mom, Dad)... Last night the Red Sox won game 6 of the ALCS after being down 3-0 at the beginning of game 4. And they won last night in spite of a blatant attempt to cheat by A-Rod. A-Rod happens to be a Bush supporter and gave $2000 to Bush (go to Fundrace.org to look it up). So it just goes to show that Republicans will cheat, even at baseball. And then have the audacity to deny it.

Thursday, August 26, 2004

Split Loyalties and Baseball Angst

The Red Sox are playing The Detroit Tigers tonight. My baseball-addled husband is listening to the game in the other room. I am hiding in here with the computer unsure what to do. I grew up cheering for the Tigers. For my 9th birthday I asked my parents (who are not baseball fans) to take me to a game. I cheered them on in the World Series in 1984 (as in, The Tigers Roar in '84). My childhood is filled with memories of Kirk Gibson and Louuuuu Whitaker and Chet Lemon and Alan Trammel.... But now that I live in Boston, well, I root for the Red Sox...and not just root, I think I've become a true Red Sox fan. The other night, when Mirabelli was up to bat I pleaded with him to please please please hit a home run...and moments later, he did. I told my husband that he had me to thank for that. According to a friend who has spent her life as a member of Red Sox Nation, this psychosis is unique to Red Sox fans. I actually read the sports section of the paper, and have been pontificating on the rise in wins of one-run games. So what's a llama to do when her home team plays her home team?

The SJC Again

Well, another split decision from the SJC in a case somewhat related to the same-sex marriage issue. Except this one goes the wrong way, IMHO. The case, in a nutshell, involved a lesbian couple, one of whom had a child through artificial insemination with the other's consent and financial support. But, they broke up 2 months before the child was born. And, because of this, and because the two had not been married (this was also before the two could have been married, that is, before the Goodridge decision) the woman who did not give birth is not obligated to pay child support. This is wrong on so many levels. The court sites the fact that the non-biological-mom was ambivalent about having the child. And her lawyer thinks that if you're ambivalent, you can back out before the child is born. She contrasts this with having unprotected sex which ends up in a pregnancy. I think there is little, if any contrast here. If anything, the non-bio-mom has at least the same responsibility as an unwed dad who didn't use a condom. She couldn't donate a sperm, so she helped pay for some, twice. And, they were in a committed relationship when she did it. This emphasis on biology (that is, she is not biologically related to the child) is outdated. Many people are ambivalent before they have children, even when they intend to get pregnant. But, what's done is done. You facilitate the conception of a fetus and that fetus is born you have a responsibility to that human being until he or she grows out of those ugly teenage years and even beyond. I applaud the justices who dissented but I'm saddened because this decision is bad, bad for gay and straight alike, and, worst of all, bad for children. (The Globe Article)

Thursday, July 29, 2004

Inconsistency noted...

Yes, I realize that at the end of my last post I say that we should be inspired by Kerry and Edwards and in the post before that I said the John Kerry does not inspire me.  This may seem inconsistent, perhaps even that I flip-flop or waffle.  That is not the case.  John Kerry does not inspire me...but I really really really wish that he did.  I know that despite my rather blah feeling about the man that I will vote for him anyway.  I'm not so confident about everyone else.  This country needs some inspiration.  The Bush Administration has been force feeding us fear and fear is not inspiring, fear will not get people to the polls, it will keep them inside with their shades drawn.  Perhaps Edwards is all the inspiring this campaign needs and despite my more cynical self feeling that his speech ran into some serious cheese last night, my more hopeful self wants more... more "Hope is on the way."  Still, it is Kerry who is running for the highest office and if I could have a do-over on my birthday wish (which was in May)... I would close my eyes and wish with all my might that people would be inspired by John Kerry.

[despite the lack of inspiration, Kerry is clearly the better candidate... high ratings from all the progressive organizations, a man with integrity, with brains, who can string more than a few words together without sounding like an idiot, and a long long record of experience and dedication to public service...and he's pro-choice]